How to overcome barriers and fulfill our needs.
There are 3 pillars which are key to any area where change or improvement are required. It may be career, friends & family, self- improvement or love and intimacy.
The first pillar is:
FOCUS:
- Is it compelling and do we really want it.
- Are we clear and honest about the quality and type of relationship we are looking for
- Is it in our control
- Are we focusing on unrealistic things outside our control
- Are we waiting for something else to happen before we take action?
- Is what we are Thinking, Saying and Doing in tune with what we want.

